Words that help
Affirmations & Positive Reframing
Short statements that nudge attention toward possibility and progress. We keep them grounded, specific, and kind.
How to make affirmations actually work
- Believable: 1–2% stretch above your current truth (“I’m learning to”).
- Specific: tie to a cue/time (“With my morning tea, I water the pot”).
- Action-coloured: include a small behaviour (“…and take a photo”).
- Sensory: add a feel/sound (“I feel cool mist on the leaves”).
- Present-tense: “Today I…” beats distant future.
- Track: one tick per day builds evidence your brain trusts.
Starter set (swap in your words)
• I can start small and still be proud.
• I’m learning what my plants like, one try at a time.
• Today I’ll do one tiny thing: water, rotate, or note.
• When I feel tense, I breathe out slower and soften my shoulders.
• I choose kind words to myself — they help me keep going.
• Rest is part of progress; I come back tomorrow.
By situation
Low energy
“I’ll touch the soil with my finger; if it’s dry, I’ll water this one pot.”
Overwhelm
“Exhale longer than I inhale. One leaf, one step.”
Setback
“This is feedback. I’m learning what to try next.”
New habit
“After the kettle clicks, I check my pot.”
Confidence
“I notice two small wins from today.”
Sleep-poor day
“Lower bar. One visible action is enough.”
Build your own (mini-workshop)
- Pick a cue (time or place): “after breakfast”, “at the window”.
- Add a tiny action: water, rotate, note, photo.
- Add a feeling word: steady, curious, gentle.
- Make it present: Today I… / When I…, I…
Template: “After [cue], I [tiny action]. I feel [feeling] and I notice one small win.”
Stack with neuroscience
- Dopamine Celebrate micro-milestones (photo, tick). Visible progress fuels motivation.
- Breath Pair the line with 3 slow breaths. Calmer body = stickier words.
- Context Say it where you act (near the pot). Brains love context cues.
Keep it kind & flexible
If a line starts to feel untrue, shrink the stretch or change the verb: “I’m exploring…”, “I’m practising…”. The point is permission to continue, not perfection.
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